Tuesday 12 August 2014
Monday 11 August 2014
Missing Piece of the Puzzle is...
Action!
All it is in cold approach pick up is taking mass amount of action. Since I am starting back day game, I need to start approaching any girls I feel desireable. As in...any girls I wanna FUCK. At this point, it`s all about getting the reference experience in a short period of time. Seeing that Ottawa doesn`t have a shit ton of hotties like places in Miami, Vegas or Cali (just to name a few), I must approach any 6`s and above. That way, I can get many more approaches than focusing on just the 8`s, 9`s and 10`s (which at this point, I`m chodey to do).
I will start my approach with the indirect to direct openers by asking girls if they know where the closest Booster Juice is. They will then answer and then I will follow up with telling them that I was joking and that I just wanted to stop her (unless she was already stopped I would say I just wanted to get her attention) and tell her that she`s cute/pretty/gorgeous/beautiful. I will then proceed with Roosh's grandpa chat follow with GALNUC
Slowly but surely, if I do this enough times, I will perfect this system and get results.
There was 2 instances where I could have macked out but pussied out. The first one was when I first got out of my car after parking in the byward market. Cute little girl walks by me, looks at me and stares but looks down after. I maintain strong eye contact but let her pass me. Like Roosh said, whenever you see a girl looks at you or smiles, that's an immediate invitation to approach. It's better to get your first approach out of the way as fast as possible or your brain will remain in chode mode and the more you walk pass girls you would want to FUCK (again, any girls 6+), you get chodier and chodier to the point where you just want to go home and blog about your shitty experience (like this, ha).
The other instance was at the gas station by my house. While filling up, I saw a chick working the register inside the gas station and thought she looked decent. It wasn't until I went to pay that I thought she looked fucken hot for someone that is working at a gas station. I made a small comment on something which she ended up smiling and end up giving me my receipt. I walked by to my car and I think I saw her staring at me while I was getting into my car. I know this is quite chodey to blog about but any small IOI right now is making me happy. If I see her again at the gas station (hopefully she's working there often), I'd like to be direct and tell her she's the prettiest gas station girl I ever seen working here. Try to small chat if no one is around and then eventually try to get her number and a date.
To sum up, this is what I need to do going forward:
All it is in cold approach pick up is taking mass amount of action. Since I am starting back day game, I need to start approaching any girls I feel desireable. As in...any girls I wanna FUCK. At this point, it`s all about getting the reference experience in a short period of time. Seeing that Ottawa doesn`t have a shit ton of hotties like places in Miami, Vegas or Cali (just to name a few), I must approach any 6`s and above. That way, I can get many more approaches than focusing on just the 8`s, 9`s and 10`s (which at this point, I`m chodey to do).
I will start my approach with the indirect to direct openers by asking girls if they know where the closest Booster Juice is. They will then answer and then I will follow up with telling them that I was joking and that I just wanted to stop her (unless she was already stopped I would say I just wanted to get her attention) and tell her that she`s cute/pretty/gorgeous/beautiful. I will then proceed with Roosh's grandpa chat follow with GALNUC
G stands for German: “By the way, are you half-German?”
A stands for Age: “By the way, how old are you?”
L stands for Location: “By the way, where do you live?”
N stands for Name: “By the way, what’s your name?”
U stands for Usually: “So where do you usually hang out?”
C stands for Cool: “Well you seem cool do you want to grab a
drink sometime and chat some more?”
Slowly but surely, if I do this enough times, I will perfect this system and get results.
There was 2 instances where I could have macked out but pussied out. The first one was when I first got out of my car after parking in the byward market. Cute little girl walks by me, looks at me and stares but looks down after. I maintain strong eye contact but let her pass me. Like Roosh said, whenever you see a girl looks at you or smiles, that's an immediate invitation to approach. It's better to get your first approach out of the way as fast as possible or your brain will remain in chode mode and the more you walk pass girls you would want to FUCK (again, any girls 6+), you get chodier and chodier to the point where you just want to go home and blog about your shitty experience (like this, ha).
The other instance was at the gas station by my house. While filling up, I saw a chick working the register inside the gas station and thought she looked decent. It wasn't until I went to pay that I thought she looked fucken hot for someone that is working at a gas station. I made a small comment on something which she ended up smiling and end up giving me my receipt. I walked by to my car and I think I saw her staring at me while I was getting into my car. I know this is quite chodey to blog about but any small IOI right now is making me happy. If I see her again at the gas station (hopefully she's working there often), I'd like to be direct and tell her she's the prettiest gas station girl I ever seen working here. Try to small chat if no one is around and then eventually try to get her number and a date.
To sum up, this is what I need to do going forward:
- Experiment and approach any girl you find attractive enough to FUCK (6+). Approach ugly girls to pump your state up
- Approach by asking where the closest Booster Juice is and then follow up with "You know what, I'm just kidding...I just wanted to say Hi because I thought you were really cute/pretty" or whatever variation I feel like at that time and then transition into grandpa chat and GALNUC.
Just remember this:
Concentrate and just think about the benefits of the pain that is going to come through this. I wouldn't even say it's pain as it ends up being quite fun and quite funny on the approaches but it will eventually lead to massive amounts of successes, good times and GROWTH. The brain at this time think it's pain because it hasn't witness an approach in such a long time and it fears the worst scenerio possible (danm you brain). But once I start to get the ball rolling, my brain will then get used to it and instead look at each approach as great opportunity to meet someone great. Any rejection will help you and I (well my brain) will eventually realize that the rejection aren't that bad at all and instead girls are really receptive in the day time and they don't pull their bitch shield on at full blast.
Keep on reminding yourself of the successes you have had in daygame where you actually approached a girl in the day time and ended up banging her a few days later. Remember these things can happen...you just got to put the work into it.
BW
BW
Sunday 10 August 2014
Starting back from scratch
Good day! I'm Hermano Wu aka Brother Wu.
A little story about me. I have been gaming for about 5 years now. Had been doing this on and off and have had only a little bit of success. The only time where I had success is from taking mass amount of action in a short period of time. For the past 2 years, I have been on hiatus (finishing up school and working full-time makes Hermano Wu a dull boy).
But that's all about to change (hopefully)...
I'm quitting my full-time job at the end of August (maybe September) and will be travelling around Asia for about 4 - 5 months. In Asia, I would like to meet new people and game, a lot! Places where I will be mainly situated will be Thailand and Indonesia where I can chill on the beaches and party hard at night.
This will take place in a few months from now. So in the meantime, I should be working my magic and mackout to some bitties in the meantime.
I will be heavily immersing myself in game and trying to push my comfort zone. The number one thing that I need to focus on is day game. Day game is what helped me get my first cold approach lay and I continue to keep in contact with the girl I have approached. The great thing about day game is that (1) there`s no cockblockers, (2) girls do not have their bitch shields on, (3) the closing rate is a lot higher and (4) you get to talk to girls that are more down to earth and at most times don`t go clubbing. I think the main reason why most men don`t do daygame is because it is just not a natural thing to do to approach women in the day time. Night time is fine...indulge in some liquor courage and every men will be macking out on girlies. Day game requires more balls in its initial phase because you are doing something that is not normal so you have to program your brain (1) to make it think it`s okay to be approaching girls in the day time and (2) to remind yourself it`s a better option than night game.
That said, I will be using a few different approaches to my day game. I have been reading Roosh`s Day Bang and will be using his indirect approach to talk to women. In addition, I will use Love Systems or Daygame.com`s approach by going direct as well. I will attempt to do both direct and indirect every day (or maybe direct one full week and indirect the next week to see how`s my success rate...this I am still not sure).
In order for me to get over anxiety in approaching women, I have to do what Roosh mention and other PUA`s talk about which is getting your mental state right. In this case, I will follow Roosh`s advice and mentally (every half hour a day or hour a day) think of the worst scenario that can happen on a day game approach and keep on rewinding that scene so it`s ingrained to your head. This will allow your brain to desensitize to the pain (your brain does not know what`s real or what`s fake when you are visualize things) and will make anxiety less prone. This will be the first step. The next steps will follow in other blog posts. I just want you to lay out the initial game plan and then adjust as I progress.
Daygame this month will consist of doing street approaches, as many day events I can find, mall approaches (a little bit...I have anxiety approaching in malls since there`s security) and whatever else I can think of during the upcoming week.
Lastly, in addition to day game (which is my main focus), I will also be doing night game at least 3 nights a week, online dating, tinder, social gaming and whatever types of game I can do.
Wish me luck!
P.S. I am doing this Tim Ferris NOBNOM challenge where I am not able to masturbate or drink for 31 days. I have to say, it fucken sucks. I can live without drinking no problem but this no jerking off thing is the most brutal thing ever. I have been yanking it but no full on masturbation to the point of cumming. For me to control myself, I have been watching amateur webcam stuff. I know if I watch the high quality porn flick, I would definately fap and blow a load. What I'm hoping to get out of this is increase in productivity in other areas of my life and for me to get hornier so I do more approaches so I can actually get someone to jerk me off.
BW
A little story about me. I have been gaming for about 5 years now. Had been doing this on and off and have had only a little bit of success. The only time where I had success is from taking mass amount of action in a short period of time. For the past 2 years, I have been on hiatus (finishing up school and working full-time makes Hermano Wu a dull boy).
But that's all about to change (hopefully)...
I'm quitting my full-time job at the end of August (maybe September) and will be travelling around Asia for about 4 - 5 months. In Asia, I would like to meet new people and game, a lot! Places where I will be mainly situated will be Thailand and Indonesia where I can chill on the beaches and party hard at night.
This will take place in a few months from now. So in the meantime, I should be working my magic and mackout to some bitties in the meantime.
I will be heavily immersing myself in game and trying to push my comfort zone. The number one thing that I need to focus on is day game. Day game is what helped me get my first cold approach lay and I continue to keep in contact with the girl I have approached. The great thing about day game is that (1) there`s no cockblockers, (2) girls do not have their bitch shields on, (3) the closing rate is a lot higher and (4) you get to talk to girls that are more down to earth and at most times don`t go clubbing. I think the main reason why most men don`t do daygame is because it is just not a natural thing to do to approach women in the day time. Night time is fine...indulge in some liquor courage and every men will be macking out on girlies. Day game requires more balls in its initial phase because you are doing something that is not normal so you have to program your brain (1) to make it think it`s okay to be approaching girls in the day time and (2) to remind yourself it`s a better option than night game.
That said, I will be using a few different approaches to my day game. I have been reading Roosh`s Day Bang and will be using his indirect approach to talk to women. In addition, I will use Love Systems or Daygame.com`s approach by going direct as well. I will attempt to do both direct and indirect every day (or maybe direct one full week and indirect the next week to see how`s my success rate...this I am still not sure).
In order for me to get over anxiety in approaching women, I have to do what Roosh mention and other PUA`s talk about which is getting your mental state right. In this case, I will follow Roosh`s advice and mentally (every half hour a day or hour a day) think of the worst scenario that can happen on a day game approach and keep on rewinding that scene so it`s ingrained to your head. This will allow your brain to desensitize to the pain (your brain does not know what`s real or what`s fake when you are visualize things) and will make anxiety less prone. This will be the first step. The next steps will follow in other blog posts. I just want you to lay out the initial game plan and then adjust as I progress.
Daygame this month will consist of doing street approaches, as many day events I can find, mall approaches (a little bit...I have anxiety approaching in malls since there`s security) and whatever else I can think of during the upcoming week.
Lastly, in addition to day game (which is my main focus), I will also be doing night game at least 3 nights a week, online dating, tinder, social gaming and whatever types of game I can do.
Wish me luck!
P.S. I am doing this Tim Ferris NOBNOM challenge where I am not able to masturbate or drink for 31 days. I have to say, it fucken sucks. I can live without drinking no problem but this no jerking off thing is the most brutal thing ever. I have been yanking it but no full on masturbation to the point of cumming. For me to control myself, I have been watching amateur webcam stuff. I know if I watch the high quality porn flick, I would definately fap and blow a load. What I'm hoping to get out of this is increase in productivity in other areas of my life and for me to get hornier so I do more approaches so I can actually get someone to jerk me off.
BW
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